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01 August 2008

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The 14 year old shooter should get a speedy trial. Then, they should lock him up and keep him behind bars for the next 40 or 50 years.

I'm not demanding leniency for a homophobic murder but clearly 40 years without parole is a bit much. Perhaps if he were charged with second degree McInerey may have some chance at rehabilitation.

There are no good answers in he prosecution of little Larry King's killer. Damned if you do and damned if you don't. And that anti-bullying and harassment program sounds wonderful. It's a start.

Miss Jackson, you are too right. Damned if you do damned if you don't. This is such a sad story. California is in a budget crunch at a time when more social services are needed in the schools.

Anti-bullying is needed, but this case also points out that counseling is needed.

According to Freud among others, most "heterosexuals" are confronted with confusing feelings about their sexual orientation when they hit puberty (i.e. they occasionally notice their own forbidden and secret desires for the same sex). Meanwhile, they are busy trying to construct a solidly heterosexual identity. That is why it is really important to have counseling and sex education at this age, especially now that a homosexual identity is an officially if not socially accepted option. (That was not the case, for example, when a 40 year old like myself was in junior high and high school, when there was a ballot initiative in California to prevent gays from being teachers.)

The teenagers have to be reassured that homosexual feelings are normal, and what's more, they do not make you "gay." What makes you gay is if, once you have grown up, you eventually find you have not developed sexual feelings for the opposite sex. In this new day in which homosexuality is no longer automatically and universally denounced, straight kids need reassurance about how to know they are straight. And it is not helpful if society equates having same-sex desires with being a sexual minority. It has to be the absence of opposite-sex desires that puts you in the minority.

Mark, I hope one day you read your comment over again so you can realize how dumb it sounds.

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