Producer of the moment, rapper and fashionista Kanye West continues to speak out on sexuality, masculinity and homophobia. Too bad more of his
contemporaries do not. While taping an appearance on VH1 Storytellers, the Grammy Award-
winner calls himself an "a**hole" for his previous homophobic ways.
"If a black man from Chicago was taught to stand far away from gay people because he didn't want to be accused of being gay. What would happen if he'd run into a gay man? What's the talk? What would he learn, what would I learn? I learned that people in Chicago were wrong and I had been an a**hole all along."
The 31-year-old star acknowledges he has a big ego, but doesn't believe he should be criticized because he always praises himself rather than slam rivals. "I do have an ego and rightfully so. I think people should have an ego. Think about it - I don't offend people, I don't put anyone down. Do I name names or bring people down? That's not my thing. But I give myself big-ups. I feel good about the music I make."
Gay friendly with a "big ego" versus someone who is more "humble" but a homophobic hater? It's no contest. We'll take the ego and the progressive politics any day ...
Recently the stylish producer-rapper has criticized hip-hop for being obsessed with gays and gay-baiting. Several years ago when Kanye West first skyrocketed on the scene, the rapper created a huge discussion when he lashed out against hip-hop's hyper-masculine homophobic culture and told fellow hip-hop heads to "stop" gay-bashing. West has admitted to having "feminine ways", "an issue with masculinity" and projecting his own insecurities. If only we all were so honest.
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you do YOU Kanye baby boy
this is why we love you
Posted by: Antwan | 04 March 2009 at 17:01
Kanye West's attitude is so refreshing for a young black man especially in music, in hip hop. I wish we could clone this guy and replace all those other irate violent homophating rappers.
Posted by: Silva | 04 March 2009 at 17:06
That is okay, Kanye. There is nothing wrong with being confident and having a big ego. Look in history and every great man or woman had confidence and an ego. You can't get ahead or be successful with low self esteem.
And as always, thanks so much for being honest and throwing the gays, especially the black gays, a love bouquet. Muah!
Posted by: Baltimore Femme | 04 March 2009 at 17:12
GO KANYE!
Posted by: P. | 04 March 2009 at 17:13
HOLD UP!
Yes, he speaking out about what we wanted but he still using females to cover up his sexuality. He still riding the fence just like Usher, Bow Wow, etc.
Why can't he just drop the act of bring a girl and not bring anyone?
50 Cent, Lil' Wayne, Common(think they all are gay) isn't going to follow this route of Kanye. NOT EVEN.... LL Cool J, Russell Simmons, etc.
I'm not satisfied still.
There needs to be a conference meeting held with all rappers from east to west.
Posted by: Anti-believer | 04 March 2009 at 18:19
"I'm not satisfied still."
Oh something tells me some of "us" will never be satisfied. Now we know for certain that Kanye is family? And COMMON??? Why just because they dress nice and are pro-gay?
I actually don't care if Kanye were gay...he is not bashing gays or hurting gays....There is a big difference between 50 Cent and Kanye, one is a gay basher one isn't.
The Usher comparison is wild. Usher is a closet case and gay basher.
This comment was too many things....
Posted by: Antonio | 04 March 2009 at 18:30
I'll be satisified when there is music conference on the issue.
If they can have an emergency conference for the word "nigga" then they can have one for gay.
Antonia your "too easy". You should demand more. One person isn't going to solve/make a point to bring this homophobia to light.
It's no different from the conversating we did re: Tyler Perry, Donnie McClurkin, etc.
Obama said "we" not "I".
Recognized damn it!
Posted by: Anti-believer | 04 March 2009 at 18:42
i'm going to take the man at his word. i'm happy we as black lgbt/sgl/gay folks have black straight allies. that's how white gay folks get so many things done we need more of 'em to raise 'awareness' and help fight homophobia in our community
but anti-believer has a point that we need more black gay men and celebrities to come out.we were just arguing that in the tyler perry post. i just don't kanye's pro gay comments are the right vehicle for this argument.
but someone does need to blow up usher's spot, too many black gay men are happy and satisfied with this dl nonsense. he is very much on the dl and has made stupid gay comments.
Posted by: Anderson | 04 March 2009 at 18:45
"A music conference." Yes, yes you are right above that one, AB. The industry should follow Kanye's lead and be proactive, they would get more respect. But that messes with
the hardcore image of the rappers.
My apologies for misunderstanding. Oh and the name is 'Antonio', dear. lol/smh
Posted by: Antonio | 04 March 2009 at 18:52
I'm sorry I read it wrong, Antonio.
I didn't mean that in a gay-fem way.
Posted by: Anti-believer | 04 March 2009 at 18:58
--->He still using females to cover up his sexuality
Kanye is gay? And we know this because .... ?
All this time, I just thought he was helping our community and a friend. Thanks for the news alert.
Posted by: GRANT | 04 March 2009 at 18:59
That's my opinion GRANT. His latest so-called girlfirend who is ball-headed has/had a girlfriend. Give me a break. They look like a mis-match just like Russel Simmons and any female model, Usher and Tameka, 50 Cent and Ciara, 50 Cent and Vivica Foxx, 50 Cent and Llyod Banks, OOPS! my bad that one fit...
Question... where has he been helping our community? That's a news alert. All I see is album after album released.
Posted by: Anti-believer | 04 March 2009 at 19:10
That's my opinion GRANT. His latest so-called girlfirend who is ball-headed has/had a girlfriend. Give me a break. They look like a mis-match just like Russel Simmons and any female model, Usher and Tameka, 50 Cent and Ciara, 50 Cent and Vivica Foxx, 50 Cent and Llyod Banks, OOPS! my bad that one fit...
Question... where has he been helping our community? That's a news alert
Posted by: Anti-believer | 04 March 2009 at 19:13
Okay, so the girlfriend is bisexual. Straight guys like that.
Kanye is into women, he is just sensistive and has some femme ways.
Posted by: Base | 04 March 2009 at 19:25
But you do have a point about the suspect brothers always going after models, lol @ Russell Simmons pretending he is straight
Posted by: Base | 04 March 2009 at 19:27
LOL! Yeah right! You keep believing that. That's your right.
Posted by: Anti-believer | 04 March 2009 at 19:27
Question... how have YOU helped our community?
Posted by: RJ | 04 March 2009 at 19:31
I enjoy Kanye and will admit to appreciating his image more than his music. But I admire a black man who is confident in his sexuality and can speak publicly about it. Is he gay? I dunno. Maybe, maybe not, maybe all these public statements are his ways of inching out the closet. Or maybe he is truly in touch with his feminine side and regrets the errors of his youth.
However I do feel he has helped black gay men by creating a discussion in our community, in hip hop and rap, where there was none before. Not everyone is listening but some are. And some people are changing their ways or trying to change their language. That is something.
Posted by: Charles T | 04 March 2009 at 19:37
By speaking about it to my gay friends and those not gay as well.
Talking, conversating.... just as I ask for the hip hop leaders/industry to do the same.
NOW WHAT? What has your azz done?
Posted by: Anti-believer | 04 March 2009 at 19:38
I also talk about thses issues on other entertainment sites like EURWEB.com where it is predominantly black religious females.
I have friends who are and have been in the entertainment/music industry in LA. We've had these discussions.
Those who can make swifer, quicker and have a "face" can change the industry. Record executives could careless until an artist is truly exposed to be gay which then they drop your azz from the record label.
So what are you doing if you are for the cause?
Posted by: Anti-believer | 04 March 2009 at 19:45
Kanye is alright with me. You go, boy! Do your thang, design your clothes, collect your pieces, spend your quality time with whoever, and thanks for continuing to speak out. It's creating a much needed conversation even in our own black community.
Posted by: Eddy B | 04 March 2009 at 19:56
"LOL! Yeah right! You keep believing that."
Posted by: RJ | 04 March 2009 at 22:03
LOL i heard it all now, Anti-believer......" I have friends in the industry who i discuss this subject with?" or "blog on random sites and continue to hide by the computer?"..... How about you stepping out from behind your computer for a second and making it as a powerful public figure who happens to be openly black & gay.
I think that would be much more of a powerful statement... think about it!
Posted by: Quest | 04 March 2009 at 22:36
I'm not sure how this conversation became hijacked but that seems to happen regularly when Anti-Believer joins then party...
Back to Kanye... I really admire what he is doing, he is telling brothers especially the kids , hey you don't have to be a thug. And gays are people too, STOP bashing them. And that is very important we need to hear more of that.
I am not going to fault Kanye for anything else. That is more than enough he has done if you ask me ... people in the blk community are talking about black gays and that is hella difficult. what is he supposed to do, go to PFLAG or NBJC and fight the fights WE DON'T WANT TO FIGHT? That is just silly.
And Quest is right. Leaving anonymous comments on blog and starting flame wars is not doing something to help the community. 'You keep believing that' tho ...
Posted by: Chris Cruz | 04 March 2009 at 22:54
This post is about Kanye and his remarks on homophobia. Not sure how it became personal but enough already.
Anti-Believer: You don't like what Kanye said, okay, fine. But you cannot dominate the comments. Make your points and move along. -RM
Posted by: Rod Mc | 04 March 2009 at 23:33